![]() ![]() This is also hard on my husband, because he wants our daughter to know that he will always and forever be her father. My husband and I are anxious, confused, and worried about telling her. How do we tell her that her “father” is her grandfather, her “brother” is her father, her “sister” is her aunt, and her “nephew” is her half-brother? We felt that was the best decision: Our child would have my husband’s genes, and we knew my stepson’s health, personality, and intelligence. We didn’t want to use a sperm bank, so we asked my husband’s son to be the donor. ![]() We both wanted to have a child together, but my husband had a vasectomy after his second child was born-too long ago to get the procedure reversed. When I married my husband, he had two adult children, and I had none. Have a question? Email her at want to miss a single column? Sign up to get “Dear Therapist” in your inbox. Editor’s Note: On the last Monday of each month, Lori Gottlieb answers a reader’s question about a problem, big or small. ![]()
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